This is a response
to the New Your Times article:
The basic point I have to bring up here is that stability in a
relationship, (working, marriage, or friendship) comes from believing you have
what you deserve. Not having just believing.
Whether or not a marriage should be dissolved is something that
should come on a situation by situation basis. Still, this looks to me more
like an act of selfishness than anything else. Is it okay to be selfish? I need
to know more about the child in this relationship first. Being married is about
us, having children is about them, and so long as needs are being best served
than actions are proper.
The article here points more to what we call anecdotal evidence
than hard numbers and should be looked at as a notion more than a suggestion.
Some people develop cancer and it is a road to a better life others get a
common cold and it kills them.
I would never advocate a person staying in an abusive
relationship. However, I would never advocate someone get a divorce because
their spouse doesn’t ‘listen to everything’ they say. The dynamic this person
is looking for is dysfunctional doting and I would have to give her a thumbs
down.
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