3rd May 2013
Dear Doctor Beals,
A subject has crossed my desk that would benefit
from your expertise in intimate relationships. It’s more of an argument really
but none the less I feel it is in the greater interest of the persons involved
and their future significant others that I do my best to resolve the dispute.
It would happen that a heterosexual male wished to
add a second female to his sexual activity with his girlfriend and later wife.
The woman in question has a history of sexual trauma. It is my understanding
that her sexual behaviors are strong and strange enough to warrant the question.
Further, what a group of consenting adults does with their bodies is their
business and it is my practice never to judge people on their sexual choices.
However, when the female refused the male became insistent.
He masturbated to pornography featuring to females and insisted on watching
this pornography during intercourse. He further became increasingly upset when
the female continued to refuse. At one time he went so far as to withhold sex
unless his significant other agreed to permit a second female in the
relationship.
After the couple was married he only raised the
subject once and was silenced by strong reproach. There was little sex in the relationship
after marriage and what there was involved watching pornography.
Now, it is my opinion that pressuring your significant
other into a sexual situation in which they are uncomfortable is a breach of trust.
Further, it is my opinion that intercourse should be an act of mutual fulfillment.
Would this man’s actions
be a breach of trust?
Richard Leland Neal
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