19th
April 2012
Dear Cassi,
Another point that has sat with me when I
read over the letter detailing my last conversation with Turtle Nose is my
omission of the statement ‘I want you to be a part of my life’ which came
directly before ‘isn’t there something I can do to make it up to you?’
I believe the word is ‘bromantic’ as
romance is something one does with the person of the opposite sex that they
love bromance is something one does with his bros as an expression of deep
friendship.
However, I see no friendship in his remark.
For one, his refusal to call me by my name was more than just a joke. This was
his way of denying who I am and inserting his character in my place. Turtle
Nose wanted his imaginary friend back.
How can we tell that it is not me he wished
to have in his life? Well, he made it impossible for me to be a part of his
life. Think about all those folks who believed his lies and now lay hatred upon
my head. In short, they hate me for being offended. Offence is an emotion so
they hate me for having emotion. If I am to be hated for my human frailties
then to please these folks I would have to be inhuman.
I will grant that this is natural for
Turtle Nose’s state of being. You will recall that he hated dogs for being dogs
and cats for being cats. Thus, he was offended by my humanity as he was also
offended by yours.
He wanted me to be a part of his life at
the expense of my own. The smallest thing I asked for was too much for him to
tolerate, but he would ask for my life as if I could rise from the dead. I
could give nothing to a man so greedy and the more that is given the more he
will want.
Live free, little sister
Richard Leland Neal
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